Have you ever felt like you don’t belong?
That no matter how hard you’ve looked that you just can’t find your tribe?
It feels like there’s something wrong with you. That you’re too sensitive, criticized, not enough or just too stupid to fit in or find love like other people do.
Ever since I was little, I felt like I didn’t belong. I was an outsider in my family – too dramatic, too sensitive and always sick. Growing up, I often felt like I was alone. And so, like a ship without an anchor, I searched for my identity wherever I could find it. In marriage, in my children, in what I did – but nothing ever felt authentic.
Who Are You?
Life is about understanding who you are and why you’re here. Living an identity that doesn’t feel right can be like putting on a sweater that’s two sizes too small – constraining and uncomfortable – like you just can’t move. That’s how it was for me until I finally gave myself the freedom to let go.
“I am not what is happening to me, I am what I choose to become.” Carl Jung
The power to live consciously and truly be who you are is a choice.
Achievements, things, or what you do are not your identity. The misery and angst you feel can’t be filled by outside things, so stop trying. The second one of those things goes away, you feel lost and stripped of who you are.
When you uncover your inner identity, you pursuing other people’s goals.
You stop seeking approval. You feel at peace.
Move from self doubt to self-accepting and confident. Learn to laugh at the things you make wrong about you and embrace all the parts others have judged and criticized. Today, I am able to embrace my stupid self, my intuitive, psychic self and my warm heart without apology.
When we work together, I’ll help you gain the self awareness to release the obstacles that keep you stuck in who you’re “supposed to be”. Live a balanced life where your internal identity matches your external one.
Identity Coaching will show you the way to be free and authentically connect with others. When you uncover your true you, you’ll be able to:
- Heal old wounds
- Set clear boundaries every time
- Find purpose and have deeper relationships
- Feel more confident and comfortable in your own skin
- Stop apologizing for who you are
Coaching is about commitment and a willingness to change. All coaching sessions take place over the phone and are completely confidential. I am a certified Breakthrough Shadow Coach and Heal Your Heart Coach. During our initial consultation we together determine which model will help you transform your life.